All of the information in this article is based on Mantek Chia’s book, Taoist Secrets of Love, which is based on ancient Taoist practice.
The essence of multiple orgasms
Let's start with the concept of multiple orgasm. Multiple orgasm is the ability of a man to receive 2 or more orgasms sequentially one after another. Since the number of consecutive ejaculations has a rather exhaustive limit and depends on the age, hormonal background of the man and other factors, we will not consider this option of multiple orgasms. We will pay all attention to the theory and practice of “dry” orgasm.
The main idea: orgasm and ejaculation are two different things, i.e. you can experience orgasm without experiencing ejaculation. It is hard to believe, but it has already been tested by more than one generation of Taoists.
So, the essence of the method: to learn to separate the moment of ejaculation from orgasm. It is the ejaculation that provokes a decline in erection and strength when "the pillow becomes sweeter than the girlfriend." With a non-ejaculatory or “dry” orgasm, this does not happen: your erection remains at the same level as it was, and moreover, you are charged with new energy. As one multi-orgasmic noted: “With normal ejaculation, my pleasure passed quickly. It is quite another thing when I get multiple “dry” orgasms. Enjoyment can be with me all day. Moreover, this is an additional source of energy - I never get tired. Now I can afford as much sexual entertainment as I want. What more could a man want? ”
How to learn to experience multi-orgasm for men?
To experience an orgasm without ejaculation, you need to get as close as possible to the moment of ejaculation, and stop a few moments before it, preventing the release of the seed. Perhaps, at the first attempts, you will break down, and the ejection of the seed will occur. But gradually, you will learn to better control your feelings, and disruptions will occur less and less.
To master the technique of “dry” orgasm, you need time and constant training. And in order to improve your skills for getting multiple orgasms, you need to perform some exercises.
Stop start technique
The essence of this method has been described above: as close as possible to the moment of ejaculation, and stop a few moments before it. After that, focus on the pleasant sensations occurring in your body. Each time you masturbate, it is necessary to achieve 3-4 peaks without ejaculation. And only then it will be possible to ejaculate, if there is a strong desire. This exercise in itself can increase the time of sexual intercourse, and has long been recommended by sexologists all over the world for patients suffering from premature ejaculation (see how to learn how not to finish for a long time ). This exercise can be performed with a partner.
However, the main essence of the exercise "stop start" is to develop their sexuality. You should not just make mechanical movements, but study your body on the other hand, learn how to enjoy touch. Therefore, the book advises paying attention to the entire member, and not just the head, to involve the scrotum, testicles, and other sensitive places of your body in your games.
Sexual muscle training
Training the pubic-coccygeal muscle can improve your understanding of how to separate the orgasm from ejaculation and acquire the ability to have multiple orgasms. More information about the pubic-coccygeal muscle and its training can be found here .
The basics of breathing
The ability to control your breathing alone can teach you how to control ejaculation. In the book of Mantec Chia, the practical section on the development of multi-orgasm begins precisely with exercises for proper breathing. The author urges you to use abdominal breathing (when you breathe in your stomach, not your chest) and make it primary. To do this, it is proposed to perform two simple exercises.
Exercise 1 - Abdominal breathing
Exercise is designed to make your breathing abdominal and deep.
Sitting on a chair, the back is straight, legs shoulder-width apart. Put your hands on your stomach, relax your shoulders. Inhale through the nose and feel the bottom of the abdominal cavity expanding in the navel so that it bulges forward.
After relaxing the chest, exhale with some effort, straining the bottom of the abdominal cavity as if you would like to press the navel against the spine. Feel how tightened the penis and testicles.
Perform this exercise 18 to 36 times.
A few minutes of exercise per day over time will accustom your body to deep abdominal breathing, even in a dream. In a fit of passion, controlling your breathing will help you prevent rapid ejaculation and experience an orgasm with your whole body.
Exercise 2 - Enhancing Concentration
When inhaling and exhaling, as in Exercise 1, count to one hundred, taking in one breath and exhaling, and focusing your attention only on breathing. If you thought you were thinking different or lost count, start the exercise anew. And so on until you count to a hundred, without losing concentration.
In addition to training deep breathing, exercise promotes concentration. This is especially useful during intense arousal, when you do not want to allow early ejaculation. Each time you experience overexcitation, it is enough to start breathing deeply and concentrate your attention on breathing.
To learn the technique more quickly, you must truly want to experience other sensations. This approach will quickly push your body to orgasm without ejaculation. Even if you once or twice experienced a “dry” orgasm, this does not mean that you have learned it, and now you will experience it constantly. To fully master the technique of multiple orgasm, you need some time. Most men who practice the above exercises experience multiple orgasms in a week or two, and improve their skills within three to six months.